Mummy? If someone punches me can I punch them back?

School Age

Mummy? If someone punches me can I punch them back?

2 Comments 06 May 2011

My boy returns from pre-school saying that a boy both spat in his face and punched him (yes I know...its south London) and asked if it is OK for him to hit him back. It was one of those frequent parenting moments where I was lost for words. I am a pacifist at heart and would love him to get through school and life without ever hitting or being hit but as I am already learning that is unlikely.

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Family dinners make a difference

Parenting, Preschoolers, School Age

Family dinners make a difference

No Comments 27 September 2010

A recent US study showed that kids eating dinner with their families are less likely to smoke, drink and take drugs. The study by The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) at Columbia University showed that kids who ate five meals a week with their families are: 45 percent less likely to drink and 66 percent less likely to do drugs. More likely to get A's and B's in school. More likely to think their parents are proud of them.

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When to talk to kids about strangers

Parenting, School Age

When to talk to kids about strangers

1 Comment 06 September 2010

My eldest is starting school in 10 days and we're going to be apart more than we've ever before. This got me thinking about her safety and the fact that I'm not always going to be there to protect her. Should we now be talking about the potential danger of strangers? We'll be walking to and from school together for a few years yet but I remember my mum drumming into me the stranger danger when I was walking to school alone at around 7 or 8yrs.

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Desperately seeking me

Parenting, School Age

Desperately seeking me

No Comments 26 July 2010

I've lost myself in motherhood. It's been 4 and a half years since I had a career. In September my eldest starts school and my youngest starts preschool, more 'me' time is winging its way and I have no idea what to do with it. I've been willing this time to come and probably been wishing away moments with my kids which no doubt I'll regret not cherishing later. Now its here I feel like a rabbit in the headlights, paralysed with fear. I chose to be at home with my kids till they started school, but it's not been easy. I miss office banter, drinks after work (that occasionally got messy) and being able to eat my lunch and go to the toilet alone. Being a 'stay at home mum' definitely highlighted my need for adult interaction and I'm so thankful for my mummy friends who've helped keep me a float when I've been drowning in domesticity.

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School uniform panic

School Age

School uniform panic

No Comments 22 July 2010

When faced with buying school uniform I had a sudden panic and couldn't quite work out exactly how many jumpers, skirts etc I should be buying. I know, pathetic, how difficult can it be? However if it vindicates me at all it is my first child and the last time I had anything to do with a school uniform was when I was wearing it and that was a long, long time ago. So what's the etiquette?

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Preparing mum and child for the first day of school

School Age

Preparing mum and child for the first day of school

No Comments 23 June 2010

Mumzine girls Dixie and Bella are both off to primary school this September and it is creating a lot of mixed feelings for us both. Although it's amazing to Dixie grow and learn I can't help feeling a bit sad that my influence is going to be over taken by that of teachers and peers. It got me thinking about what I could do to prepare both of us for Dixie's big day.

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Girls starting puberty at primary school – why?

School Age

Girls starting puberty at primary school – why?

No Comments 14 June 2010

New research has shown that on average girls are starting puberty a year earlier than 20 years ago. A study of 1,000 girls found that breast development now begins around the age of nine years and ten months. Scientists have spoken of the serious implications for girls' physical and emotional health. Dr Anders Juul, of Copenhagen University Hospital in Denmark, which carried out the research, said: 'If girls mature early, they run into teenage problems at an early age and they're more prone to diseases later on. 'It's a clear sign that something is affecting our children; whether it's junk food, environmental chemicals or lack of physical activity.'

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Are you fever-phobic?

Babies/Toddlers, Natural Health, Preschoolers, School Age

Are you fever-phobic?

3 Comments 31 May 2010

Does your child having a temperature send you into a panic? Before you reach for the calpol read on, understanding the process of fever may help alleviate some of that anxiety. Fever is one of the immune systems way to neutralise a threat inside the body (bacterial or viral). A temperature is considered elevated when it is higher than 100 degrees F. Although, it can be uncomfortable, it is a protective response and enhances the body's defense mechanisms. At some point, most children develop high fevers with minor viral illnesses. While a fever signals that a battle might be going on in the body, the fever is fighting for the person, not against.

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